I will always be there for you,
and I hope you will be there for me too,
for our friendship can never be broken,
I will remain loyal through all the good and the bad,
and in the end we will be glad,
because without you I am nothing,
as you are nothing without me,
we fill the space a lover couldn't fill,
for we hold each others secrets that we would never spill,
and the day you're gone, part of me goes too,
because I wouldn't want to be here with out you,
Best friends forever you and me,
nothing could ever change that; it's destiny!
Tuesday, October 10, 2006
Monday, September 04, 2006
Lage Raho Munnabhai ....
Watched this movie .. Lage raho munnabahi ... one of the greatest movies ever seen ... made on such a difficult and sensative topic, extremely brilliant screen play, a movie where you laugh like anything but still passes a very strong message.
That one should always speak truth.
Speaking lie is very easy, but speaking truth takes lots of guts
Many times people don't like hearing truth ... which is a fact aslo. The reason for those are also because we all like to hear good and nice things. I dont understand why are people so afraid to state the truth.
I have experianced many times people not liking when I say truth on their face, but I don't understand why ? Why are you so afarid to face yrself ? Why are people so afraid to say things which they fell so strongly about ? Why do people delay things/ decisions ? I know for sure that if i delay making a choice right not in a problem, or delay a problem it will come back to me more strongly next time. Right now i may get away with this quite lightly but that may not be the case for the long term.
Kher not deviating for the topic I will say a gr8 movie to watch, enjoy it a lot and try to follow as much as you can from it in your life and become a better person. Right now it gives a nice feeling with Bollywood comming with movies for a reason which respect equality of people, respects indian culture ...
That one should always speak truth.
Speaking lie is very easy, but speaking truth takes lots of guts
Many times people don't like hearing truth ... which is a fact aslo. The reason for those are also because we all like to hear good and nice things. I dont understand why are people so afraid to state the truth.
I have experianced many times people not liking when I say truth on their face, but I don't understand why ? Why are you so afarid to face yrself ? Why are people so afraid to say things which they fell so strongly about ? Why do people delay things/ decisions ? I know for sure that if i delay making a choice right not in a problem, or delay a problem it will come back to me more strongly next time. Right now i may get away with this quite lightly but that may not be the case for the long term.
Kher not deviating for the topic I will say a gr8 movie to watch, enjoy it a lot and try to follow as much as you can from it in your life and become a better person. Right now it gives a nice feeling with Bollywood comming with movies for a reason which respect equality of people, respects indian culture ...
Saturday, August 26, 2006
Quite a big lesson in this little story
A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package.
"What food might this contain?" The mouse wondered - he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.
Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning: "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."
The mouse turned to the lamb and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The lamb sympathized, but said, "I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers."
The mouse turned to the cow and said "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The cow said, "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose."
So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap alone.
That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.
The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.
The snake bit the farmer's wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital, and she returned home with a fever. Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient.
But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the lamb.
The farmer's wife did not get well; she died. So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.
The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.
So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn't concern you, remember -- when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk.
We are all involved in this journey called life. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.
REMEMBER: EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD IN ANOTHER PERSON'S TAPESTRY; OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON. One of the best things to hold onto in this world, beside God is a friend.
"What food might this contain?" The mouse wondered - he was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.
Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning: "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said, "Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it."
The mouse turned to the lamb and told him, "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The lamb sympathized, but said, "I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers."
The mouse turned to the cow and said "There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!"
The cow said, "Wow, Mr. Mouse. I'm sorry for you, but it's no skin off my nose."
So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer's mousetrap alone.
That very night a sound was heard throughout the house -- like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey.
The farmer's wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.
The snake bit the farmer's wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital, and she returned home with a fever. Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup's main ingredient.
But his wife's sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the lamb.
The farmer's wife did not get well; she died. So many people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.
The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness.
So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn't concern you, remember -- when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk.
We are all involved in this journey called life. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another.
REMEMBER: EACH OF US IS A VITAL THREAD IN ANOTHER PERSON'S TAPESTRY; OUR LIVES ARE WOVEN TOGETHER FOR A REASON. One of the best things to hold onto in this world, beside God is a friend.
Friday, August 18, 2006
The raw, crude and happy Kshitij Hinger ...
It’s been really long since I have written anything ... lately been thinking a lot ... friends will say when the hell was I not thinking :) Today will write about my thoughts about the way I live my life, money and satisfaction in life.
People call me crude and raw, I didn't used to like that some time ago, but now i am happy with being raw ... because I know where needed I can be equally professional ... and I am raw because I don’t like to waste my money. Its been hard earned. I don’t want a lifestyle of branded things or eating out in expensive places. I think that is a waste of money. Now that doesn’t means that I am not fine eating there on regular purpose, its okay to do that once a while but never no a regular basis. Perhaps I can see that because i have been broke in my life and it was me and only me who on himself got over from there. May be that was a phase which changed me and gave me a new direction in my life.
being raw gives me a confidence which very few people posses ... I am never worried about my work, rather than they driving me, I drive them ... yes people do find it uncomfortable of that many times, but I think there is no harm in being like that and what’s great about is that it makes me not afraid of any damm thing, any person ... I guess this is something which only can be felt ...
I am motivated to something only till the time I like doing that ... and I have that discipline in my life that I can literally stop something the day I want it ... I never get addicted, people may feel I am ... but the day I realize I don’t want to do it and than its like the last day ...
People like to know what drives me, I will say its different things at times ... I know I can do a lot many things, but will only do those which I want too ... and people many times find it difficult to understand. I think I have multi-skills and I personally believe that doing something which you like is great ... is ausum ... cause there you get satisfaction ... I guess satisfaction is something which all people want have. Many of my friends think I like to show off ... I would say they are wrong, I want a sea facing penthouse because I want to live in that, I want to feel that fresh breeze every day ... I like to get wet and dance in rains... if its crude so what I will still keep doing that ... cause these are the things which give me lot of satisfaction ... and enjoyment ...one can say "atma trupt hoti hai" meaning the soul gets satisfied....
Yes I like to live my heart ... cause I think that is fun ... and i am happy with that ... I am outspoken ... but I am satisfied with it because it has its own shares of happiness and sadness ... pro's and con's ... I say things which should be told and can be harsh at times ... I don’t like to cause anyone any pain, trouble anyone, scare anyone ... but I like to ensure that in that process they don't end up using me. Yes I do let people use me and I think that's the biggest shortcoming I have ... I am unable to say NO to people even if I really want it and I know people knowingly and unknowingly use that quality of mine.
Yesterday I came across a discussion where a collogue of mine said I check profitability of every day in my life … I never did that but I that is an excellent suggestion because that that will mean that I will be satisfied every day and I think there is nothing better than that
I forgive people but I never forget.... I recon it’s enough for today ... and I am really happy to be raw and crude ... because I think I am raw and crude because I know how to carry myself around well with anyone and I guess after that it doesn’t matters. I am able to build good level of trusts with people and that is only because I never get back from my word and if anyone wants to make me do that ... that is something which I will always regret ... people would be thinking why has this been posted here ... but I am sure not many will be able to understand it cause it been a conversation with myself!!!!!!!!! and a decision has be taken ...
People call me crude and raw, I didn't used to like that some time ago, but now i am happy with being raw ... because I know where needed I can be equally professional ... and I am raw because I don’t like to waste my money. Its been hard earned. I don’t want a lifestyle of branded things or eating out in expensive places. I think that is a waste of money. Now that doesn’t means that I am not fine eating there on regular purpose, its okay to do that once a while but never no a regular basis. Perhaps I can see that because i have been broke in my life and it was me and only me who on himself got over from there. May be that was a phase which changed me and gave me a new direction in my life.
being raw gives me a confidence which very few people posses ... I am never worried about my work, rather than they driving me, I drive them ... yes people do find it uncomfortable of that many times, but I think there is no harm in being like that and what’s great about is that it makes me not afraid of any damm thing, any person ... I guess this is something which only can be felt ...
I am motivated to something only till the time I like doing that ... and I have that discipline in my life that I can literally stop something the day I want it ... I never get addicted, people may feel I am ... but the day I realize I don’t want to do it and than its like the last day ...
People like to know what drives me, I will say its different things at times ... I know I can do a lot many things, but will only do those which I want too ... and people many times find it difficult to understand. I think I have multi-skills and I personally believe that doing something which you like is great ... is ausum ... cause there you get satisfaction ... I guess satisfaction is something which all people want have. Many of my friends think I like to show off ... I would say they are wrong, I want a sea facing penthouse because I want to live in that, I want to feel that fresh breeze every day ... I like to get wet and dance in rains... if its crude so what I will still keep doing that ... cause these are the things which give me lot of satisfaction ... and enjoyment ...one can say "atma trupt hoti hai" meaning the soul gets satisfied....
Yes I like to live my heart ... cause I think that is fun ... and i am happy with that ... I am outspoken ... but I am satisfied with it because it has its own shares of happiness and sadness ... pro's and con's ... I say things which should be told and can be harsh at times ... I don’t like to cause anyone any pain, trouble anyone, scare anyone ... but I like to ensure that in that process they don't end up using me. Yes I do let people use me and I think that's the biggest shortcoming I have ... I am unable to say NO to people even if I really want it and I know people knowingly and unknowingly use that quality of mine.
Yesterday I came across a discussion where a collogue of mine said I check profitability of every day in my life … I never did that but I that is an excellent suggestion because that that will mean that I will be satisfied every day and I think there is nothing better than that
I forgive people but I never forget.... I recon it’s enough for today ... and I am really happy to be raw and crude ... because I think I am raw and crude because I know how to carry myself around well with anyone and I guess after that it doesn’t matters. I am able to build good level of trusts with people and that is only because I never get back from my word and if anyone wants to make me do that ... that is something which I will always regret ... people would be thinking why has this been posted here ... but I am sure not many will be able to understand it cause it been a conversation with myself!!!!!!!!! and a decision has be taken ...
Friday, July 28, 2006
Kshitij, your connection type is The In-depth Conversationalist
Kshitij, your connection type is The In-depth Conversationalist
Whether it's 4 in the morning or 4 in the afternoon, you're probably the friend people call when they need someone to talk to. "Lean on me" might as well be your theme song. You're a great confidante and advisor who's especially good at listening to your pals when something's on their mind. Just make sure they're willing to do the same for you!
Marathon phone calls don't tire you out! You've been working on your endurance for years. Whether talking about the major events in your life, spelling out every detail of your last vacation, or giving the all important blow-by-blow of your last date, you've got stories to share with the loved ones in your life! And if that afterthought occurs just after you hang up? No worries. You're not ashamed to call back for a quick update. Sure, your friends might tease you about your flair for drama and attention to detail. But they always know that when they need you, you're just a phone call away.
Whether it's 4 in the morning or 4 in the afternoon, you're probably the friend people call when they need someone to talk to. "Lean on me" might as well be your theme song. You're a great confidante and advisor who's especially good at listening to your pals when something's on their mind. Just make sure they're willing to do the same for you!
Marathon phone calls don't tire you out! You've been working on your endurance for years. Whether talking about the major events in your life, spelling out every detail of your last vacation, or giving the all important blow-by-blow of your last date, you've got stories to share with the loved ones in your life! And if that afterthought occurs just after you hang up? No worries. You're not ashamed to call back for a quick update. Sure, your friends might tease you about your flair for drama and attention to detail. But they always know that when they need you, you're just a phone call away.
Kshitij, you're a Muse!
Kshitij, you're a Muse!
Known for your creative powers, you Muses are the poets and musicians of life, the patrons of the fine arts. It's funny, though — even with your inspirational prowess, you're probably not the type to boast about your guitar-strumming skills, or your latest published book of verse.
While it's great when people flock to you for ideas, there probably is a part of you that prefers to blend in sometimes — whether dressing in muted shades or staking out a one-on-one conversation at parties and social events. But try as you might not to hog the spotlight, others can't help but notice you. Must be hard to be such a goddess!
Despite any lingering modesty, you might be surprised at how much your mere presence can help improve the lives of those around you by infusing them with ideas and good thoughts. With that kind of healing energy, your inspirational ways have the potential to change the world, Muse. Whether you're scribbling sonnets, boogying with your friends, or drawing your own constellations — you're tapped in. So keep your eyes wide open to the possibilities and let that inspiration flow!
Known for your creative powers, you Muses are the poets and musicians of life, the patrons of the fine arts. It's funny, though — even with your inspirational prowess, you're probably not the type to boast about your guitar-strumming skills, or your latest published book of verse.
While it's great when people flock to you for ideas, there probably is a part of you that prefers to blend in sometimes — whether dressing in muted shades or staking out a one-on-one conversation at parties and social events. But try as you might not to hog the spotlight, others can't help but notice you. Must be hard to be such a goddess!
Despite any lingering modesty, you might be surprised at how much your mere presence can help improve the lives of those around you by infusing them with ideas and good thoughts. With that kind of healing energy, your inspirational ways have the potential to change the world, Muse. Whether you're scribbling sonnets, boogying with your friends, or drawing your own constellations — you're tapped in. So keep your eyes wide open to the possibilities and let that inspiration flow!
Monday, July 03, 2006
Tuesday, May 16, 2006
Came across a blog which made me think ... not think ... just nod and than i thought i should also write something ... the topic which was touched there was about purity of friendship, not the topic but the way i will take it ... friendship is funny and more funnier is when one compares that with love. I dont understand why people make so much hue and cry about friends, do they because are they jelous ... being always asked a question about my friends, i have always told yes i have friends, and they are just friends, but why the hell do people dont belive it. And its further bad when even your friends are one who question you ... But i think i have atleast understood now that it does not matters, cause i know i am saying the truth, if you dont want to listen and repect the truth then bye bye Mr/Miss.
To me love is a very pure form of friendship, you can say a perfect friendship ... perhaps i am asking for too much ... but i think its about being true to yourself and thats what matters in the end. Friendship is about accepting the other person as he or she is, but there are compromises also, a very simple compormise which we many a times ignore is "when you go out with a group of your friends for a dinner, now all people have there likes and dislikes and you never became friends because of those likes, but still you manage to order something which is accetable to all" isint that a compormise, people will just try to ignore that, its a compormise, but it is ... but when you do a smilar think when for a friend who is of opposite sex, there is so much hue and cry. Man is a social animal, and does in society means always to make comments on people, why do people have to make comments rather than watch themselves, perhaps when they learn that they will go much ahead. started it thinking will write something else, but yehe mind bada he ajeeb hai, wrote complains ... i recon ...
But i know what i will do ... follow Gandhi Ji's advice "Do such behavior to all, as you want them to do to yourself" Perhaps a collection of words which if all people in this world follow there would be no fights, and all people would be so happy.
To me love is a very pure form of friendship, you can say a perfect friendship ... perhaps i am asking for too much ... but i think its about being true to yourself and thats what matters in the end. Friendship is about accepting the other person as he or she is, but there are compromises also, a very simple compormise which we many a times ignore is "when you go out with a group of your friends for a dinner, now all people have there likes and dislikes and you never became friends because of those likes, but still you manage to order something which is accetable to all" isint that a compormise, people will just try to ignore that, its a compormise, but it is ... but when you do a smilar think when for a friend who is of opposite sex, there is so much hue and cry. Man is a social animal, and does in society means always to make comments on people, why do people have to make comments rather than watch themselves, perhaps when they learn that they will go much ahead. started it thinking will write something else, but yehe mind bada he ajeeb hai, wrote complains ... i recon ...
But i know what i will do ... follow Gandhi Ji's advice "Do such behavior to all, as you want them to do to yourself" Perhaps a collection of words which if all people in this world follow there would be no fights, and all people would be so happy.
Sunday, May 14, 2006
 | Aragorn If I were a character in The Lord of the Rings, I would be Aragorn, Man of the West, leader of the Rangers who guard the hobbits. In the movie, I am played by Viggo Mortensen. Who would you be? |
Sunday, April 30, 2006
Whats yr True color ?
Your true color is Black!
What's Your True Color?
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Kshitij, your true color is Black!
Your color is black. The color of night. Serene and mysterious, black conjures up images of elegant evening gowns, dashing tuxedos, and gleaming limousines. Traditionally a symbol of success, black also represents power and an uncompromising demand for perfection. Not surprisingly, you tend to set challenging goals for yourself and do whatever it takes to achieve them — your strength of character is second to none. This unfaltering determination, along with your natural elegance, impresses people. But keep in mind that your personality might be intimidating to some. Try to temper your demanding side with a little softness — trust us, it won't kill you. Overall, though, black is the color of professionalism and achievement, which means it's clearly the color for you.
Friday, April 14, 2006
The [.HI] Accident Saga !!!
It seems that i am in a phase of getting accidents ...
Just trying to imagin what happened yesterday and today was again no less ...
Went to office, left for my work to andheri from there, aram se bina kuch style mare driving casually and imagin what can happen, suddenly a bike running ahead of me slips and fells down, okay i reacted further slowed my bike and suddenly from a 90 degree position i am 180 degree flat on road, sitting there and seeing my bike travelling ... just like amitab movies, hero is comming on bike ... and there is oil on the road by the villan, and the bike goes Zoom ... i dont know how i got out of bike ... luckily not much hurt, jst a loss of my cotton trousers are cotton shirt ... so well what ... went to house to change, no blood loss and all ... changed and completed my work and reached office ... and than all it starts again ... the dozing and feeling weak, so boss se chutti li and ghar ko chale ... ghar pauchte hai ... and wht now ... the key fell inside the thing on which we keep the keys .. more bad luck ... to socha lets get the bike repaired ... did tht ... got key from anant, reached house and spoke to my friend ... now feeling very tierd and all and than blackmailed for taking medicin, which i finally took :D
chalo yaha tak to thek tha ...
today had told by boss long time ago for a break ... so was enjoying with my friends, had fun and while returning back ... at Khar, at a signal, i go straight and side se ek car wala aa ke handel mai BOOM ... now had to fell ... luckily for us we fell towards the car and the car person had also anticipated the colloision and me also so we had slowed down considerably and the impulse we got back to bike and not in danger zone of traffic and a traffic policemen rushed to divert the traffic ... kabhi accha kamm bhi karte hai pandu log :p ... quite a remarkable accident prone days ... with straight warnings from my boss not to drive my bike as right now we are in a very critical project stage :D hehehehehehe ... and upar se now my friend gonna tell everybody ke because of me accident happen ... che ... and wo upar se pichle 10 mins se muzhe kehe ja rahi thi ke tumhara accident hoga ...how bad of her ... grrr ... luckily jayada lagi nahi ... bach gaye :) sayad meri company pe bhagwan ko thodi daya aa gayi ... but ... mast chal raha hai ... and what more a gr8 prediction for today ...
Dear Kshitij,
Here is your horoscope
for Friday, April 14:
Sometimes the most significant changes start from the most seemingly insignificant events. It's a good time to pay attention to your intentions as well as your actions. Life-altering events are in the making.
hahahahahahahahhahaha ... life altering sure it is :D
chalo aaj ke liye itna he ... comments awaited.
Just trying to imagin what happened yesterday and today was again no less ...
Went to office, left for my work to andheri from there, aram se bina kuch style mare driving casually and imagin what can happen, suddenly a bike running ahead of me slips and fells down, okay i reacted further slowed my bike and suddenly from a 90 degree position i am 180 degree flat on road, sitting there and seeing my bike travelling ... just like amitab movies, hero is comming on bike ... and there is oil on the road by the villan, and the bike goes Zoom ... i dont know how i got out of bike ... luckily not much hurt, jst a loss of my cotton trousers are cotton shirt ... so well what ... went to house to change, no blood loss and all ... changed and completed my work and reached office ... and than all it starts again ... the dozing and feeling weak, so boss se chutti li and ghar ko chale ... ghar pauchte hai ... and wht now ... the key fell inside the thing on which we keep the keys .. more bad luck ... to socha lets get the bike repaired ... did tht ... got key from anant, reached house and spoke to my friend ... now feeling very tierd and all and than blackmailed for taking medicin, which i finally took :D
chalo yaha tak to thek tha ...
today had told by boss long time ago for a break ... so was enjoying with my friends, had fun and while returning back ... at Khar, at a signal, i go straight and side se ek car wala aa ke handel mai BOOM ... now had to fell ... luckily for us we fell towards the car and the car person had also anticipated the colloision and me also so we had slowed down considerably and the impulse we got back to bike and not in danger zone of traffic and a traffic policemen rushed to divert the traffic ... kabhi accha kamm bhi karte hai pandu log :p ... quite a remarkable accident prone days ... with straight warnings from my boss not to drive my bike as right now we are in a very critical project stage :D hehehehehehe ... and upar se now my friend gonna tell everybody ke because of me accident happen ... che ... and wo upar se pichle 10 mins se muzhe kehe ja rahi thi ke tumhara accident hoga ...how bad of her ... grrr ... luckily jayada lagi nahi ... bach gaye :) sayad meri company pe bhagwan ko thodi daya aa gayi ... but ... mast chal raha hai ... and what more a gr8 prediction for today ...
Dear Kshitij,
Here is your horoscope
for Friday, April 14:
Sometimes the most significant changes start from the most seemingly insignificant events. It's a good time to pay attention to your intentions as well as your actions. Life-altering events are in the making.
hahahahahahahahhahaha ... life altering sure it is :D
chalo aaj ke liye itna he ... comments awaited.
Wednesday, April 05, 2006
Koi Aap Sa (Contd.)
hmmm ... a friend of mine after reading my post "koi aap sa" gave me a summary that "i want people to understand me, and they dont understand me or take me for what i am"
perhaps he is party true in that... people do misunderstand me and perhaps that is the reason when i do some things they come out to be shocked, perhaps a blessing in disguise :) But comming back to topic ... there was none anways ... hehehe ... the bigger reason is i think we learn from life, "Life is also a teacher, who takes examination first and than teaches the lesson" Perhaps i have been through many many examinations and from them have learned them a lot, perhaps as i have been alone facing those examinations and that has developed my thinking a lot, may be given some lines on one should and may be because i dont want to hurt anyone and that includes me i have generated the values and morals for friendship ... yes now these things could be very idealistic, but i belive a mahatma ghandi saying "Do to others, what you want for yrself" and i think i just try my level best to do my part and hope for the result, sometimes it comes and sometimes it may not come but well farak kya padtha hai, when you get back than perhaps you are the most happy person, because in today's world getting something which u want is perhaps the biggest thing which one can have and its a dream to have a life the way you want it, even 50% the way you want it, and i have learned that results never come in a day or two, it takes time for your efforts to yield and one should wait for that, its worth waiting for that ... there was a time when i was very unhappy in my life but as that time i never deviated from my values and so perhaps now i am happy, though a few of my friends will life to contradict me on that, but kher thats me ...
why does this questions always troubling me ... why am i writing ... perhaps these days i am writing because that makes it easier for me to talk with myself, and ya a question asked to me "u are not afraid of anyone knowing this" and according to me answer is ... those anybodies wont be able to make out a word from this and perhaps few my friends wont understand some part of it, its something on which it would be very difficult to comment on ... because it is simply my life and how can one comment on that ... hehehehe ... but i will still like to read the comments ...
makes me wonder how much abstractly i can think on anything ... so kuch aur likha jaye kya aaj ? perhaps a few questions will help me write more :) do give
Love,
Kshitij
perhaps he is party true in that... people do misunderstand me and perhaps that is the reason when i do some things they come out to be shocked, perhaps a blessing in disguise :) But comming back to topic ... there was none anways ... hehehe ... the bigger reason is i think we learn from life, "Life is also a teacher, who takes examination first and than teaches the lesson" Perhaps i have been through many many examinations and from them have learned them a lot, perhaps as i have been alone facing those examinations and that has developed my thinking a lot, may be given some lines on one should and may be because i dont want to hurt anyone and that includes me i have generated the values and morals for friendship ... yes now these things could be very idealistic, but i belive a mahatma ghandi saying "Do to others, what you want for yrself" and i think i just try my level best to do my part and hope for the result, sometimes it comes and sometimes it may not come but well farak kya padtha hai, when you get back than perhaps you are the most happy person, because in today's world getting something which u want is perhaps the biggest thing which one can have and its a dream to have a life the way you want it, even 50% the way you want it, and i have learned that results never come in a day or two, it takes time for your efforts to yield and one should wait for that, its worth waiting for that ... there was a time when i was very unhappy in my life but as that time i never deviated from my values and so perhaps now i am happy, though a few of my friends will life to contradict me on that, but kher thats me ...
why does this questions always troubling me ... why am i writing ... perhaps these days i am writing because that makes it easier for me to talk with myself, and ya a question asked to me "u are not afraid of anyone knowing this" and according to me answer is ... those anybodies wont be able to make out a word from this and perhaps few my friends wont understand some part of it, its something on which it would be very difficult to comment on ... because it is simply my life and how can one comment on that ... hehehehe ... but i will still like to read the comments ...
makes me wonder how much abstractly i can think on anything ... so kuch aur likha jaye kya aaj ? perhaps a few questions will help me write more :) do give
Love,
Kshitij
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Koi Aap Sa
Love … Friendship basically Relationships …
There goes a saying that “ek ladka and ladki dost nahi ho sakte” and well I think it’s perhaps correct and perhaps wrong also .. I think it becomes true in the case when two friends are very close otherwise general type friends mai to aisa kuch nahi hota hai mere hisab se. kher why this topic well was seeing the moving “Koi Aap Sa” for the second time, nothing to do in cuttak and uska TV premier aa raha tha, and me always been a fan of romantic comedies, people may think I am a sentimental fool but I really like the movie, what I liked was there beauty in defining what is love ? What is friendship ? and a very true saying also “A friend in need is a friend indeed” apke acche mai to harr jana aap ka dost hota hai, and the people who are there when you are down are your real friends and such people are very tough to find. Because we never tell when we are down, it has to be made out and I guess that only very few people can do.
Kher as always deviating from the topic, meri to khaisayat hai wo akhir :D, so kya kehe raha tha mai, khud he bhul gaya … ya about the movie … well a very cute movie and which makes you think about your friendship with your friends and the relationships we are into … and I think its very difficult always for other people to realize what type of relationship are we with the other person, even our closest of your friends are not able to realize that, makes me wonder than why are they there If they cant get me as we define friends by those who know me … and perhaps one more reason why these things happen is because we are so afraid to express, we are afraid to express thinking what will the other person will think, I will lose him or her, but in actual not saying we actually lose them.
Bolna apne aap mai ek bahut badi chej hai, and perhaps very difficult too, cause its how interpreted, and that is a function of mood, mindset, person, everything … u never know where to draw the lines, what to say, what not to say, where to stop, and don’t we all fight for very very silly reasons and but the beauty of friendship is there when one person is getting angry, other should not become senti, become hurt as the person who is angry dosent knows what he or she is saying and then we tend to hurt the people who matter to us. Those who are our lifelines, and then we drift. I would say I have been lucky in that regard, I can’t hate people, and I let people come and move out of my life, perhaps that hurts me sometimes but that also makes my life beautiful when we are in touch.
I guess we should cherish the moments when we friends were together, we spend quality time right, is it worth to leave that … I don’t think so it is, with life situations change, people changed, all have phases in there lives and it perhaps that makes us think otherwise, warna to you cant loose touch with that person, how can you?
Now I am wondering why am I writing it, reading this makes no sense to me, parr chalo koi nahi thodi non-sense he sahi ;)
But these are the things which can only be felt in life, I am lucky to have experienced all these (From my side only) and I am waiting for some from the other side … lets see where life takes me and all my friends too and all to be friends. This is dedicated to me, my life and lessons which I have learnt in life I thought why not put these in words and some day laugh about it ;)
hhehehehehehe
the stupid and senti
Kshitij, or Hinger, or .HI, or K, or Horizon … sayad itne he nicks hai hehehehe
Waise aj lafi likh diya hai main, and I rarely write my posts on my blog perhaps a change gonna happen now, its gonna become kshitijhinger rather than kshitijhinger’s collection in time to come … don’t know which people would like …
There goes a saying that “ek ladka and ladki dost nahi ho sakte” and well I think it’s perhaps correct and perhaps wrong also .. I think it becomes true in the case when two friends are very close otherwise general type friends mai to aisa kuch nahi hota hai mere hisab se. kher why this topic well was seeing the moving “Koi Aap Sa” for the second time, nothing to do in cuttak and uska TV premier aa raha tha, and me always been a fan of romantic comedies, people may think I am a sentimental fool but I really like the movie, what I liked was there beauty in defining what is love ? What is friendship ? and a very true saying also “A friend in need is a friend indeed” apke acche mai to harr jana aap ka dost hota hai, and the people who are there when you are down are your real friends and such people are very tough to find. Because we never tell when we are down, it has to be made out and I guess that only very few people can do.
Kher as always deviating from the topic, meri to khaisayat hai wo akhir :D, so kya kehe raha tha mai, khud he bhul gaya … ya about the movie … well a very cute movie and which makes you think about your friendship with your friends and the relationships we are into … and I think its very difficult always for other people to realize what type of relationship are we with the other person, even our closest of your friends are not able to realize that, makes me wonder than why are they there If they cant get me as we define friends by those who know me … and perhaps one more reason why these things happen is because we are so afraid to express, we are afraid to express thinking what will the other person will think, I will lose him or her, but in actual not saying we actually lose them.
Bolna apne aap mai ek bahut badi chej hai, and perhaps very difficult too, cause its how interpreted, and that is a function of mood, mindset, person, everything … u never know where to draw the lines, what to say, what not to say, where to stop, and don’t we all fight for very very silly reasons and but the beauty of friendship is there when one person is getting angry, other should not become senti, become hurt as the person who is angry dosent knows what he or she is saying and then we tend to hurt the people who matter to us. Those who are our lifelines, and then we drift. I would say I have been lucky in that regard, I can’t hate people, and I let people come and move out of my life, perhaps that hurts me sometimes but that also makes my life beautiful when we are in touch.
I guess we should cherish the moments when we friends were together, we spend quality time right, is it worth to leave that … I don’t think so it is, with life situations change, people changed, all have phases in there lives and it perhaps that makes us think otherwise, warna to you cant loose touch with that person, how can you?
Now I am wondering why am I writing it, reading this makes no sense to me, parr chalo koi nahi thodi non-sense he sahi ;)
But these are the things which can only be felt in life, I am lucky to have experienced all these (From my side only) and I am waiting for some from the other side … lets see where life takes me and all my friends too and all to be friends. This is dedicated to me, my life and lessons which I have learnt in life I thought why not put these in words and some day laugh about it ;)
hhehehehehehe
the stupid and senti
Kshitij, or Hinger, or .HI, or K, or Horizon … sayad itne he nicks hai hehehehe
Waise aj lafi likh diya hai main, and I rarely write my posts on my blog perhaps a change gonna happen now, its gonna become kshitijhinger rather than kshitijhinger’s collection in time to come … don’t know which people would like …
My new toy ;)
My new bike ... so how am i looking ? new helmet, my googles .. bass yehe dadu ne pic dhang se nahi li, bike nahi dikh rahi hai poori, ek aur pic leni padagi :)
and ya i am going to my Office :)
Random Thoughts in my Mind ....
hmmm .. so what am i doing ? likh raha hoon .. likhna to meri adat nahi hai .. so kyoin likh raha hoon, pata nahi, sayad isliye kyoin ke kuch karne ko nahi hai ... pada hua hoon cuttak mai, there is lots of work to do, but aj kuch karne ke feel nahi aa rahi hai, pata nahi kyoin ? but well work is still going on good and at times somethings are not in your hand and you can't do anything about it. Life is going on and its so funny, things happen when you least expect those to happen ... even with having so many close, real close buddies i feel at times so alone, so lonley .. ajkal chirkutgiri full form mai chal rahi hai ... making many new friends from there but the question is what am i looking for ? sometime i wonder why do i need more friends, itne sare to hai and unse he touch mai rahena at times becomes problamatic ... but i guess jindgi aise he chalti hai ... isi ka namm jindgi hai :)
dekhte hai whats in store for me for tommorow, i guess now will utilize my time to plan tommorow's work day, that is also very necessary na ... parr still don't feel like ... i guess need to take a small break from work ... parr break le ke bhi kya karunga ? will sleep aur kya ... masti karne ke iccha to bahut hai, but aisa koi sath nahi hai, and perhaps thats what i am missing. i need something in my life ... a spark to get me rolling ... waise i doubt anyone would be thinking i am not rolling ... credentials he aise chal rahe hai fortunately or unfortunately ...
want to find internal happiness somehow, searching for that ... sayad khud ko aur explore karna padega uske liye ya sayad kamm karna padega ... samaz nahi ata hai, but well have been always taking my decisons on my own so will do that again ... cause i am the best :)
so mr kshitij hinger, best thing for you is to start writing and getting your thought process sorted out cause thats the only way you can do ...
and well readers, you wont be able to make out what i mean in here ... cause its just whats going right now in my mind and what developed while writing this.
kabhi lagta tha ke mai likh nahi sakta, but now i know its not like that, just need a drive for that ... sayad khud se batt karne ke next state is writing or perhaps i need that now cause ab mai buddha ho raha hoon ... hehehehehe, bechare brain pe maine waise he kafi load diya hua hai ... chalo dinner order kiya jaye, sala koi acchi movie bhi nahi aa rahi hai TV mai :( kitne din ho gaye movies dekhe hue muzhe, soch raha hoon now this sunday back to back 2-3 movies nipta he dallon ... that will get me back on track ... yes thats what i need, i need some FUN ...
dekho how much writing can help :) solution nikal gaya ;)
waoooooooooooooo jst saw .. even my fortune says so .. hehehehehe
Dear Kshitij,
Here is your horoscope
for Monday, April 3:
Are you getting enough you-time? Self-care should be at the top of your list. Get a massage, treat yourself to a long day enjoying nature or spend some time with the phone turned off and reading a good book.
dekhte hai whats in store for me for tommorow, i guess now will utilize my time to plan tommorow's work day, that is also very necessary na ... parr still don't feel like ... i guess need to take a small break from work ... parr break le ke bhi kya karunga ? will sleep aur kya ... masti karne ke iccha to bahut hai, but aisa koi sath nahi hai, and perhaps thats what i am missing. i need something in my life ... a spark to get me rolling ... waise i doubt anyone would be thinking i am not rolling ... credentials he aise chal rahe hai fortunately or unfortunately ...
want to find internal happiness somehow, searching for that ... sayad khud ko aur explore karna padega uske liye ya sayad kamm karna padega ... samaz nahi ata hai, but well have been always taking my decisons on my own so will do that again ... cause i am the best :)
so mr kshitij hinger, best thing for you is to start writing and getting your thought process sorted out cause thats the only way you can do ...
and well readers, you wont be able to make out what i mean in here ... cause its just whats going right now in my mind and what developed while writing this.
kabhi lagta tha ke mai likh nahi sakta, but now i know its not like that, just need a drive for that ... sayad khud se batt karne ke next state is writing or perhaps i need that now cause ab mai buddha ho raha hoon ... hehehehehe, bechare brain pe maine waise he kafi load diya hua hai ... chalo dinner order kiya jaye, sala koi acchi movie bhi nahi aa rahi hai TV mai :( kitne din ho gaye movies dekhe hue muzhe, soch raha hoon now this sunday back to back 2-3 movies nipta he dallon ... that will get me back on track ... yes thats what i need, i need some FUN ...
dekho how much writing can help :) solution nikal gaya ;)
waoooooooooooooo jst saw .. even my fortune says so .. hehehehehe
Dear Kshitij,
Here is your horoscope
for Monday, April 3:
Are you getting enough you-time? Self-care should be at the top of your list. Get a massage, treat yourself to a long day enjoying nature or spend some time with the phone turned off and reading a good book.
Sea and Seashore.
Trear Your life as Sea,
Your Heart as a Seashore,
and Friends like Waves.
It never matters how many waves are there.
What matters is,
How many waves touched the seashore.
so do you think you touched ?
Your Heart as a Seashore,
and Friends like Waves.
It never matters how many waves are there.
What matters is,
How many waves touched the seashore.
so do you think you touched ?
Friday, March 31, 2006
Arena(known to self and others) adaptable, loving, mature, sentimental, trustworthy | Blind Spot(known only to others) able, accepting, brave, caring, confident, dependable, energetic, extroverted, friendly, giving, happy, idealistic, intelligent, logical, observant, proud, searching, self-assertive, self-conscious, sensible, silly, warm |
Façade(known only to self) modest | Unknown(known to nobody) bold, calm, cheerful, clever, complex, dignified, helpful, independent, ingenious, introverted, kind, knowledgeable, nervous, organised, patient, powerful, quiet, reflective, relaxed, religious, responsive, shy, spontaneous, sympathetic, tense, wise, witty |
All Percentages
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Created by the Interactive Johari Window on 31.3.2006, using data from 6 respondents.
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Wednesday, March 29, 2006
Tuesday, March 07, 2006
| Your Birthdate: July 9 |
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What Does Your Birth Date Mean?
You are a born idealist, with more pet causes than you can count. You prefer be around others, both when working and while relaxing. Generous and giving, you believe you can change the world one person at a time. You're open minded and tolerant. People feel like they can tell you anything.
Your strength: Your go-with-the-flow flexibility
Your weakness: Your flair for the over dramatic
Your power color: Pine green
Your power symbol: Circle
Your power month: September
Your weakness: Your flair for the over dramatic
Your power color: Pine green
Your power symbol: Circle
Your power month: September
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
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