Monday, September 26, 2005

The best kind of Friendship is the kind you
can sit on porch and swing with,
never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation
you have ever had ...

what u say ?

Saturday, September 24, 2005

You Are 60% Boyish and 40% Girlish

You are pretty evenly split down the middle

- a total eunuch.

Okay, kidding about the eunuch part.

But you do get along with both sexes.

You reject traditional gender roles.

However, you don't actively fight them.

You're just you.

You don't try to be what people expect you to be.

How Boyish or Girlish Are You?


Tuesday, September 13, 2005

Walk with me my dear friend

Walk with me my dear friend. .

My Friend please walk with me hand in hand.

Lets watch the sun shine down and kick up all the sand.
Lets watch the waves roll in and in.
Lets sit there and think of how much we have been though.
No matter if its bad or good..
Lets think in the peacefulness.
Feeling the spray of water spring all about on our faces.
Tell me how your day has been and what you plan to do.
Tell me how your life is going so i can have the best picture of every moment.
Surrounded in my mind will be thoughts of only happiness.
All of which will be of us growing, knowing each other more and more.
Since you are my friend I want to know what makes you cry
I want to know what makes you happy,
I want to know every thing that makes you feel like sparks are gonna fly.
When a boy touches your hand or runs his fingers though your hair,
Does anything they do give you a feeling so true..?
You don't have to tell me everything,
And even if you don't.
I'll still have that picture,
Drawn perfectly in my mind.
Of the most wonderful loving friend,
In all the world i could ever be able to find . . .

aha !!! my 50th post on my blog ;) To all of you by friends. Thanks for being there for me :) Love u all !!!
Kshitij

Monday, September 12, 2005

Take care my friend

To my friends who have been there for me all the time :) Love u all !!!

Take care my friend . .

Take care my friend,

I miss talking to you.
And laughing with you,
And sharing moments,
that makes being with you soo special..

Take care my friend.

Becoz- theres all wrong
with a day when u r not here.
Somethings missing.
And inspite of myself..

I listen for your laugh

and watch for you face in the crowd.
Stand by the door
waiting all day
thinking.. maybe you will drop by..

Take care my friend

becoz i cant help thinking
how lonely it is without you
and how nice it would be to have you here..

But most of all..

Take care.
becoz you matter to me . .

Sunday, September 11, 2005

Balance in Life, Relationships ....

A 91-year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her for a very long time. "If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"

God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us. It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God. This confused the woman, so God began to explain:

"When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts. Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always appreciate what you have. You never know when you might lose it. Never take your friends or family for granted, because today and sometimes only this very moment is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it's the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act, instead base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back. But don't turn your back on love, because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts. Times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life's experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations. By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."

Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from man's good deeds. God replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift he has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson. The woman's curiosity deepened.God, once again began to explain:

"When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!"

Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right direction!
And well also be yrself always and keep learning from everything, as everything happening around u has a reason, its for your eyes only to see it and act on it. Enjoy:)

Unexpressed Love . . .

Unexpressed Love. . .

I feel like left aloneAmidst of all the knowing faces

Knowing that you won’t stand beside me hereafter

Sweetest melodies wouldn’t make me entertained

Coz’ I know I’m gonna miss your enchanting voice

I feel my heart about to freeze

Right under the blazing sun
Knowing that I’m gonna miss the warmth of your heart

I feel so helpless & missing

Even in the company of my friends
Coz’ I know I’m gonna miss your loving care

I felt like shattered to pieces

On the day that you said
Someone else has stolen your heart

But how could I ever blame you

Coz’ I never let you know that
I do care a lot and keep thinking of you . . .

Don't ask me . . .

Don't ask me . . .

I'm not begging you to love me.

I'm not really even asking you.
But, isn't it alright
If I cherish that hope in my heart..
If I dream of just holding your hand,
It will hurt me - not you.
I will try to keep my eyes from shining
When they see you.And I promise
I will try not to smile a special smile
When you say hello.but, please
Don't ask me
Not to love you . . .

Tuesday, September 06, 2005

A fun game for me and you

A fun game for me and you ¸. •*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•

THIS IS A SURVEY WITH A TWIST - YOU fill in the blanks about ME

and send it back to ME (through comments post),
but FIRST,
put a BLANK one on your blog for your friends,
including ME, s
o they can return the favor to YOU.

BE HONEST, they're really cool to get back,
you might find something you missed before.

~~* RuLeZ *~~* 1st-Copy Paste this survey on your blog
2nd-fill this survey out for ME
3rd- BE HONEST & PLEASE ONCE YOU HIT THIS BLOG & READ THIS POST THEN DO REPLY¸. •*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•¸. •*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•*´¨`*•.¸¸.•


1. My name :
2. Where did we meet?:
3. Take a stab at my middle name:
4. How long have you known me?:
5. When is the last time we saw each other?:
6. Do I smoke?:
7. Do I believe in God?:
8. When you first saw me / talked with me what was your impression?:
9. My age:
10. Birthday:
11. Colour- hair:
12. Colour- eyes:
13. Do I have any brothers or sisters?:
14. (a)Have you ever had a crush on me?:
b) do you still?
15. Have you ever been jealous of me?If yes, why?!
16. What's my favourite colour?:
17. What's one of my favourite movies?:
18.Do you remember one of the 1st things I said to you?:
19. What's my favourite type of music?:
20. What is the best feature about me?:
21. Am I shy or outgoing?
22. Would you say I am funny "ha ha" or funny(sarcastic)?:
23. Am I a rebel or do I follow all the rules?
24. Would you consider me a friend, an aquaintence or a good friend:
25. Would you call me pretty, slutty, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam,snobby, or something else(what?)?:
27. If there were one good nickname for me what would it be?:
28. Are my grandparents with me?:
29. Have you ever seen me cry? If so when and y did i cry?:
30.If i had broccoli in my teeth would you tell me?
31.What would u give me out of 10(10 the highest) for personality:
32.What would you give me out of 10(10 the highest) for looks?:
33.What annoys u most about me?:
34.Do u think i am funny?:
35.If you could do one thing to me what would it be?:
36.If you could go anywhere with me where would it be?:
37.Do you trust me?:
38.Do you know anyone that fancies me?:
39.Do you know anyone that hates me?:
40.Do you love me?:

Sunday, September 04, 2005

I had a dream in my mind . .

I had a dream in my mind . .

I had a dream in my mind,

It was a dream not meant to see
I felt a whisper in my lips,
It was a whisper not meant to say
I kept a promise to my self,
It was a promise not meant to break

I felt a beat in my heart,
It was a beat not meant to feel
Let me dream you in to my mind,
It is the dram I want to see
Let me whisper love to your life,
It is the words I want to say
Let me promise never to apart,
It is the promise never meant to break
Let me feel your love in my heart,
It will stay for eternity . . .

Friday, September 02, 2005

Why are helpfull people lonley most ?

The people who help around and who are being there for there friends most of the times they find themselves to be lonley most.

Why is the world like that ? when u are there for your friends when they need you ? Why does it happens that when u really need someone nearby u dont find one ? Is there something wrong in helping around ?

I have seen so many instances in my life, have seen in a few of my relatives lives, the people who used to help most also get all the blame from this world ... Those are the ones who are called as "bura" meaning "bad people" or people who are disrupting.

I am so much confused that is caring wrong ? is helping wrong ? are you not entiteled for some love or some care when u need ? why do u have to at times go and tell your friends that u need them ? why cannot they realize that on there own ? why do u have to remind them that u need them ? and why do they feel that they are doing a favor to there friend ?

Why are people who have good intention, who help, who want that no one suffers are lonley most ? why why why ?

why does that happens ... I guess lot of questions ... but i think from today on i would start writing my own ...

and to my friends ... i don't want you to call me ... I just dont want that .. I just want you to put yr comments right here in the COMMENT BOX .. as i am not going to hear anything nor discuss this over phone to anyone ... Yes i can also me adamanent ... and i have had enough of one sideded ness.

And if u think u never told that because u thought its too small thing to tell ... then i will say IT MATTERS so please say ...

Kshitij