Live the Life, dont run ...

Time is short. The music won't last.

You'd better slow down. Don't dance so fast.

When u speed so fast to get somewhere

You miss half the fun of getting there.

When you worry and get through your day

Its like an unopened gift... thrown away.

Life is not a race. Do take it slower

Hear the music before the song is over.

Yet another Tag from ...

1) Single or Taken: Single yet, heart is taken by someone ... and well dont have her till date ... lets see what future has store for me ... i have yet to loose hope on that though :p
2) Your Age:22
3) Birthday: 09 July 1983
4) Hair: Black
5) Eye colour: Brown
6) Shoe size: 8 and 9

Full name: Kshitij Hinger
1) Did you send this to your crush? nops
2) Did your crush send this to you?: no comments !!!

1) Where is your favourite place to shop: Big Bazzar, Shopper Stop, etc ...
2) Any tatoos?: Nops , wo sab bachpan mai tha
3) Do u do drugs?: Naaah
4) What are you listening to right now?: nothing
5) What car do you wish to have? a benz :p
6) Where do you want to get married? In Udaipur ;)

*FAVORITES*
1)Color: blue, cream, red
2)Subjects in college:Maths
3)Music: Soft
1) Given anyone a bath? : ya .. to self :D
2) Bungee jumped: will do when i get my chance :D
3) Broken the law: hehehehehe .. no comments "Rules are ment to be Broken" :p
5) Gone skinny-dipping: not yet, but may be some day :D
6) Ever been in love: ya
7) Made yourself cry to get out of trouble: nops, i never cry :D

**F i n a l Q u e s t i o n s **
1) How many people are you sending this to?: no one .. just putting on my blog as sent to me by my closest friend
2) Who will send it back: no idea
3) What is the last film you saw at the theatre? Shaddi No. 1

Kshitij

Don't Change the World . .

Once upon a time, there was a king who ruled a prosperous country. One day, he went for a trip to some distant areas of his country. When he was back to his palace, he complained that his feet were very painful, because it was the first time that he went for such a long trip, and the road that he went through was very rough and stony. He then ordered his people to cover every road of the entire country with leather. Definitely, this would need thousands of cows' skin, and would cost a huge amount of money.

Then one of his wise servant dared himself to tell the king, "Why do you have to spend that unnecessary amount of money ? Why don't you just cut a little piece of leather to cover your feet ?"

The king was surprised, but he later agreed to his suggestion, to make a "shoe" for himself.

There is actually a valuable lesson of life in this story : to make this world a happy place to live, you better change yourself - your heart; and not the world . . .

isint it so true ... We should stop complaining and find solutions to make ours and life of ppl who matter to us happy :)

Kshitij

This life is yours

Take the power to choose what you want to do

and do it well.

Take the power to love what you want in life

and love it honestly.

Take the power to walk in forest

and be a part of nature.

Take the power to control your own life.

No one else can do it for you.

Take the power to make your life happy.

This life is yours.

If you think u can, then you can ....

If you think you are beaten, You are
If you think you dare not, You don't
If you'd like to win, But you think you can't,
It's almost sure you won't !
If you think you'll lose, You've lost,
For out in the world you find sucess begins with the will,
Its all in the state of mind.

If you think you are outclassed, You are,
You've got to think hight to rise.
You've got to think of yourself
Before you can win the prize !
If you don't try the race is lost, Before even a step is run
Think big and your deeds will grow,
Think small and you will fall behind,
Think that you can and you will,
It's all in the state of mind !

Life's battels don't always go to stronger or faster man.
But sooner or later the man who wins,
Is the one who thinks he can !!!

What I Wouldn't Do . .

What I Wouldn't Do . .

What I wouldn't do
Just to hear you say
I love you

What I wouldn't do
Just to hear you say
I want to be with you

What I wouldn't do
Just to hear you say
No one else will ever do

What I wouldn't do
Just to hear you say
I can't live without you

What I wouldn't do
Just to hear you say
There's nothing you wouldn't do

What I wouldn't do
Just to hear you say
Just one of these, someday . . .

Life's Little Instruction Book :-)

Life's Little Instruction Book :-)

• Have a firm handshake.
• Look people in the eye.
• Sing in the shower.
• Own a great stereo system.
• If in a fight, hit first and hit hard.
• Keep secrets.
• Never give up on anybody. Miracles happen everyday.
• Always accept an outstretched hand.
• Be brave. Even if you're not, pretend to be. No one can tell the difference.
• Whistle.
• Avoid sarcastic remarks.
• Choose your life's mate carefully. From this one decision will come 90 per cent of all your happiness or misery.
• Make it a habit to do nice things for people who will never find out.
• Lend only those books you never care to see again.
• Never deprive someone of hope; it might be all that they have.
• When playing games with children, let them win.
• Give people a second chance, but not a third.
• Be romantic.
• Become the most positive and enthusiastic person you know.
• Loosen up. Relax. Except for rare life-and-death matters, nothing is as important as it first seems.
• Don't allow the phone to interrupt important moments. It's there for your convenience, not the caller's.
• Be a good loser.
• Be a good winner.
• Think twice before burdening a friend with a secret.
• When someone hugs you, let them be the first to let go.
• Be modest. A lot was accomplished before you were born.
• Keep it simple.
• Beware of the person who has nothing to lose.
• Don't burn bridges. You'll be surprised how many times you have to cross the same river.
• Live your life so that your epitaph could read, No Regrets
• Be bold and courageous. When you look back on life, you'll regret the things you didn't do more than the one's you did.
• Never waste an opportunity to tell someone you love them.
• Remember no one makes it alone. Have a grateful heart and be quick to acknowledge those who helped you.
• Take charge of your attitude. Don't let someone else choose it for you.
• Visit friends and relatives when they are in hospital; you need only stay a few minutes.
• Begin each day with some of your favorite music.
• Once in a while, take the scenic route.
• Send a lot of Valentine cards. Sign them, 'Someone who thinks you're terrific.'
• Answer the phone with enthusiasm and energy in your voice.
• Keep a note pad and pencil on your bed-side table. Million-dollar ideas sometimes strike at 3 a.m.
• Show respect for everyone who works for a living, regardless of how trivial their job.
• Send your loved ones flowers. Think of a reason later.
• Make someone's day by paying the toll for the person in the car behind you.
• Become someone's hero.
• Marry only for love.
• Count your blessings.
• Compliment the meal when you're a guest in someone's home.
• Wave at the children on a school bus.
• Remember that 80 per cent of the success in any job is based on your ability to deal with people.
• Don't expect life to be fair.

Gandhi Jayanti Today !!!

02.10.05 today ... another Gandhi Jayanti goes by, what do we learn from it, a man who got us freedom in a way which no one else could had done, been awarded so many awards but do we indians recognize the true Gandhi ... perhaps one of the most respected philosophies in the world right now ... a simple priclipal "Live and Let Live" live for yr family, yr friends, yr country ... live simply, dont waste ... so simple things and if followed can do wonders ... I am no gandhian, but i read "Freedom at Midnight" and pretty remarkable how one man made sure that there was no blood shed in bengal during partition ... even the british leaders were surprized how come there whole force was not able to stop blood shed in punjab whereas a one man was keeping Bengal quite which was supposed to be very very vercetile state ...

truly called father of nation .... deserved to be called that ... bow to the great man and i hope we all in the world understand what he really said and do that for the happiness of the world ... the world now no longer is a single country ... it might be now but business and needs of people make it a global country ... spread the message of love and hope for love to come back to you ... it might take time but it will ...

Kshitij

The Rainbow . . .

I See The Sun
Rising On The Sphere
It Pleases My Heart
I Wish U Could Be Near

When I See The Sunset
I Rest Down For A While
At The Ending Of Each Day,
I Think Of You And I Smile

And When Night Shadows Fall,
The Stars Light Our Way.
It Makes Me Think Of You,
Your Words, Whatever You Say

After Every Storm,
I See A Rainbow In The Sky
It Smoothens My Soul
Like A Gentle Lullaby.

It's Through Your Eyes,
I See The World, I See Everywhere.
And It's At Each Rainbow's End,
I Know I'll Find You There . .

Dedicated to all my closest friends, I miss u all and i hate it being here alone but you all are always inside me :)

Opportunity and Life !!!

Opportunity ... I came across a nice story (below) ... aint opportunity something which entirely depends on the person ... I will say opportunity lies all around us but we dont want to put efforts to reach to them ... I would say go for every opportunity, in start u may feel its not for you, this will get me there and blah blah !!! which u dont want ... but u never know ... "A footballer will miss 100% shots which he did not took" so if u dont take opportunity than dont blabber as you have no right to do that ... A footlballer makes an opportunity by taking the Shot ... arent many of us afraid to take shots, too worried about the outcome ... GO FOR THE SHOT AND YOU WILL HAVE WHAT YOU WANT, IF YOU DONT TAKE THE SHOT THEN YOU HAVE LOST THE CHANCE OF WINNING ...

Opportunity is always there in your life, just depends on your attitude that you see it or not and grab it or not .

written why ? i am asking question :p hehehehehe, comments awaited.

Never miss first opportunity . .

A young man wished to marry the farmer's beautiful daughter. He went to the farmer to ask his permission. The farmer looked him over and said, "Son, go stand out in that field. I'm going to release three bulls, one at a time. If you can catch the tail of any one of the three bulls, you can marry my daughter."

The young man stood in the pasture awaiting the first bull. The barn door opened and out ran the biggest, meanest-looking bull he had ever seen. He decided that one of the next bulls had to be a better choice than this one, so he ran over to the side and let the bull pass through the pasture out the back gate. The barn door opened again. Unbelievable. He had never seen anything so big and fierce in his life.

It stood pawing the ground, grunting, slinging slobber as it eyed him. Whatever the next bull was like, it had to be a better choice than this one. He ran to the fence and let the bull pass through the pasture, out the back gate.

The door opened a third time. A smile came across his face. This was the weakest, scrawniest little bull he had ever seen. This one was his bull. As the bull came running by, he positioned himself just right and jumped at just the exact moment. He grabbed... but the bull had no tail!

Life is full of opportunities. Some will be easy to take advantage of, some will be difficult. But once we let them pass (often in hopes of something better), those opportunities may never again be available. So always grab the first opportunity . . .

The best kind of Friendship is the kind you
can sit on porch and swing with,
never say a word, and then walk away
feeling like it was the best conversation
you have ever had ...

what u say ?

You Are 60% Boyish and 40% Girlish

You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch. Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes. You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them. You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be.

How Boyish or Girlish Are You?

Walk with me my dear friend

Walk with me my dear friend. .

My Friend please walk with me hand in hand.
Lets watch the sun shine down and kick up all the sand.
Lets watch the waves roll in and in.
Lets sit there and think of how much we have been though.
No matter if its bad or good..
Lets think in the peacefulness.
Feeling the spray of water spring all about on our faces.
Tell me how your day has been and what you plan to do.
Tell me how your life is going so i can have the best picture of every moment.
Surrounded in my mind will be thoughts of only happiness.
All of which will be of us growing, knowing each other more and more.
Since you are my friend I want to know what makes you cry
I want to know what makes you happy,
I want to know every thing that makes you feel like sparks are gonna fly.
When a boy touches your hand or runs his fingers though your hair,
Does anything they do give you a feeling so true..?
You don't have to tell me everything,
And even if you don't.
I'll still have that picture,
Drawn perfectly in my mind.
Of the most wonderful loving friend,
In all the world i could ever be able to find . . .

aha !!! my 50th post on my blog ;) To all of you by friends. Thanks for being there for me :) Love u all !!!
Kshitij

Take care my friend

To my friends who have been there for me all the time :) Love u all !!!

Take care my friend . .

Take care my friend,
I miss talking to you.
And laughing with you,
And sharing moments,
that makes being with you soo special..

Take care my friend.
Becoz- theres all wrong
with a day when u r not here.
Somethings missing.
And inspite of myself..

I listen for your laugh
and watch for you face in the crowd.
Stand by the door
waiting all day
thinking.. maybe you will drop by..

Take care my friend
becoz i cant help thinking
how lonely it is without you
and how nice it would be to have you here..

But most of all..
Take care.
becoz you matter to me . .

Balance in Life, Relationships ....

A 91-year-old woman died after living a very long dignified life. When she met God, she asked Him something that had really bothered her for a very long time. "If Man was created in God's image, and if all men are created equal, why do people treat each other so badly?"

God replied that each person who enters our life has a unique lesson to teach us. It is only through these lessons that we learn about life, people and our relationships with God. This confused the woman, so God began to explain:

"When someone lies to you, it teaches you that things are not always what they seem. The truth is often far beneath the surface. Look beyond the masks people wear if you want to know what is in their hearts. Remove your own masks to let people know who you really are.

When someone steals from you it teaches you that nothing is forever. Always appreciate what you have. You never know when you might lose it. Never take your friends or family for granted, because today and sometimes only this very moment is the only guarantee you may have.

When someone inflicts injury upon you, it teaches you that the human state is a very fragile one. Protect and take care of your body as best as you can, it's the one thing that you are sure to have forever.

When someone mocks you, it teaches you that no two people are alike. When you encounter people who are different from you, do not judge them by how they look or act, instead base it on the contents of what is in their hearts.

When someone breaks your heart, it teaches you that loving someone does not always mean that the person will love you back. But don't turn your back on love, because when you find the right person, the joy that one person brings you will make up for all of your past hurts. Times a thousand fold.

When someone holds a grudge against you, it teaches you that everyone makes mistakes. When you are wronged, the most virtuous thing you can do is forgive the offender without pretense. Forgiving those who have hurt us is often the most difficult and painful of life's experiences, but it is also the most courageous thing a person can do.

When a loved one is unfaithful to you, it teaches you that resisting temptation is Man's greatest challenge. Be vigilant in your resistance against all temptations. By doing so, you will be rewarded with an enduring sense of satisfaction far greater than the temporary pleasure by which you were tempted.

When someone cheats you, it teaches you that greed is the root of all evil. Aspire to make your dreams come true, no matter how lofty they may be. Do not feel guilty about your success, but never let an obsession with achieving your goals lead you to engage in malevolent activities.

When someone ridicules you, it teaches you that nobody is perfect. Accept people for their merits and be tolerant of their flaws. Do not ever reject someone for imperfections over which they have no control."

Upon hearing the Lord's wisdom, the old woman became concerned that there are no lessons to be learned from man's good deeds. God replied that Man's capacity to love is the greatest gift he has. At the root of kindness and love, and each act of love also teaches us a lesson. The woman's curiosity deepened.God, once again began to explain:

"When someone loves us, it teaches us love, kindness, charity, honesty, humility, forgiveness, acceptance, and all of these can counteract all the evil in the world. For every good deed, there is one evil deed. Man alone has the power to control the balance between good and evil, but because the lessons of love are not taught often enough, the power is too often abused.

When you enter someone's life, whether by plan, chance or coincidence, consider what your lesson will be. Will you teach love or a harsh lesson of reality? When you die, will your life have resulted in more loving or more hurting? More comfort or more pain? More joy or more sadness? Each one of us has the power over the balance of the love in the world. Use it wisely!"

Don't miss an opportunity to nudge the world's scale in the right direction!

And well also be yrself always and keep learning from everything, as everything happening around u has a reason, its for your eyes only to see it and act on it. Enjoy:)

Unexpressed Love . . .

Unexpressed Love. . .

I feel like left aloneAmidst of all the knowing faces
Knowing that you won’t stand beside me hereafter

Sweetest melodies wouldn’t make me entertained
Coz’ I know I’m gonna miss your enchanting voice

I feel my heart about to freeze
Right under the blazing sun
Knowing that I’m gonna miss the warmth of your heart

I feel so helpless & missing
Even in the company of my friends
Coz’ I know I’m gonna miss your loving care

I felt like shattered to pieces
On the day that you said
Someone else has stolen your heart

But how could I ever blame you
Coz’ I never let you know that
I do care a lot and keep thinking of you . . .

Don't ask me . . .

Don't ask me . . .

I'm not begging you to love me.
I'm not really even asking you.
But, isn't it alright
If I cherish that hope in my heart..
If I dream of just holding your hand,
It will hurt me - not you.
I will try to keep my eyes from shining
When they see you.And I promise
I will try not to smile a special smile
When you say hello.but, please
Don't ask me
Not to love you . . .

A fun game for me and you

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1. My name :
2. Where did we meet?:
3. Take a stab at my middle name:
4. How long have you known me?:
5. When is the last time we saw each other?:
6. Do I smoke?:
7. Do I believe in God?:
8. When you first saw me / talked with me what was your impression?:
9. My age:
10. Birthday:
11. Colour- hair:
12. Colour- eyes:
13. Do I have any brothers or sisters?:
14. (a)Have you ever had a crush on me?:
b) do you still?
15. Have you ever been jealous of me?If yes, why?!
16. What's my favourite colour?:
17. What's one of my favourite movies?:
18.Do you remember one of the 1st things I said to you?:
19. What's my favourite type of music?:
20. What is the best feature about me?:
21. Am I shy or outgoing?
22. Would you say I am funny "ha ha" or funny(sarcastic)?:
23. Am I a rebel or do I follow all the rules?
24. Would you consider me a friend, an aquaintence or a good friend:
25. Would you call me pretty, slutty, average, sporty, punk, hippie, glam,snobby, or something else(what?)?:
27. If there were one good nickname for me what would it be?:
28. Are my grandparents with me?:
29. Have you ever seen me cry? If so when and y did i cry?:
30.If i had broccoli in my teeth would you tell me?
31.What would u give me out of 10(10 the highest) for personality:
32.What would you give me out of 10(10 the highest) for looks?:
33.What annoys u most about me?:
34.Do u think i am funny?:
35.If you could do one thing to me what would it be?:
36.If you could go anywhere with me where would it be?:
37.Do you trust me?:
38.Do you know anyone that fancies me?:
39.Do you know anyone that hates me?:
40.Do you love me?:

I had a dream in my mind . .

I had a dream in my mind . .

I had a dream in my mind,
It was a dream not meant to see
I felt a whisper in my lips,
It was a whisper not meant to say
I kept a promise to my self,
It was a promise not meant to break

I felt a beat in my heart,
It was a beat not meant to feel
Let me dream you in to my mind,
It is the dram I want to see
Let me whisper love to your life,
It is the words I want to say
Let me promise never to apart,
It is the promise never meant to break
Let me feel your love in my heart,
It will stay for eternity . . .

Why are helpfull people lonley most ?

The people who help around and who are being there for there friends most of the times they find themselves to be lonley most.

Why is the world like that ? when u are there for your friends when they need you ? Why does it happens that when u really need someone nearby u dont find one ? Is there something wrong in helping around ?

I have seen so many instances in my life, have seen in a few of my relatives lives, the people who used to help most also get all the blame from this world ... Those are the ones who are called as "bura" meaning "bad people" or people who are disrupting.

I am so much confused that is caring wrong ? is helping wrong ? are you not entiteled for some love or some care when u need ? why do u have to at times go and tell your friends that u need them ? why cannot they realize that on there own ? why do u have to remind them that u need them ? and why do they feel that they are doing a favor to there friend ?

Why are people who have good intention, who help, who want that no one suffers are lonley most ? why why why ?

why does that happens ... I guess lot of questions ... but i think from today on i would start writing my own ...

and to my friends ... i don't want you to call me ... I just dont want that .. I just want you to put yr comments right here in the COMMENT BOX .. as i am not going to hear anything nor discuss this over phone to anyone ... Yes i can also me adamanent ... and i have had enough of one sideded ness.

And if u think u never told that because u thought its too small thing to tell ... then i will say IT MATTERS so please say ...

Kshitij

You may not be here with me ...

But thoughts of you are

Always in my heart ...

Love is not something that happens at first sight ...

Love is not something that
happens on first sight,
it happens when u start
knowing each other and
in turn end up needing each other,
for every feeling,
for every thought and for every
moment ...

It is case for me ...
I can only hope and
wish its same for you ...

Dear Friend . . .

Dear Friend . . .

We might not meet,
we might not chat,
but we would still be friends,
you better don't forget that..

Times would go passing by,
changes would come with you and I,
our lives destiny would shape,
as with time progress we make.

Distance would take us away miles & miles,
we might not even see each others smiles.
We might not help each other;
but still let not,our friendship wither..

Remember the moments which we share..
no matter, now you are where
you would then miss me
but in your memories I will be..

The magic of friendship would call me
and I would miss you then
thinking..
together we would be when . .

I just can wish ...
and Hope ...
Love ...
Kshitij

Eight Gifts that Do Not Cost A Cent . .

Eight Gifts that Do Not Cost A Cent . .

1) THE GIFT OF LISTENING . . But you must REALLY listen. No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your response. Just listening.


2) THE GIFT OF AFFECTION . . Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back and handholds.Let these small actions demonstrate the love you have for family and friends.


3) THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER . . Clip cartoons. Share articles and funny stories. Your gift will say, "I love to laugh with you."


4) THE GIFT OF A WRITTEN NOTE . . It can be a simple "Thanks for the help" note or a full sonnet. A brief, handwritten note may be remembered for a lifetime, and may even change a life.


5) THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT . . A simple and sincere, "You look great in red," "You did a super job" or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.


6) THE GIFT OF A FAVOR . . Every day, go out of your way to do something kind.


7) THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE . . There are times when we want nothing better than to be left alone. Be sensitive to those times and give the gift of solitude to others.


8) THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION . . The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone, really it's not that hard to say, Hello or Thank You. Friends are a very rare jewel, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share a word of praise, and they always want to open their hearts to us . .

This is mine ...


Heart of Gold

What is Your Heart REALLY Made of?
brought to you by

I can guarantee

I can guarantee

We'll have tough times

I guarantee that

at some point one or both of us

will want to get out.

But I also

gurantee that if

I don't ask you to be mine,

I'll regret it for the rest of my life,

Cause I know in my heart

You are the only one for me ...

Is it love ..? Will it be for ever . .

Is it love ..? Will it be for ever . .

Her sight does make me confident
Her presence does make me nervous
is it love ..? Will it be for ever..?

Her day does make my dreams
Her nights do make me lonelyBut,
is it love..? Will it be for ever..?

Other flowers do attract me
Other birds do inspire my poemsYet,
is it love..? Will it be for ever..?

Waves do rise wonderfully high
but my castle is yet dryYet
is it love..? Will it be for ever..?

Should I wait, until one day
something in me would answer
"Yes, this is love & it will be for ever"

But will the wait be too long
until someday I would realize
the loss was love & it would have been FOREVER . .

Secret Crush

Secret Crush . .

Your eyes entrap me
Every time you're around
I want to let you know
But I can't make a sound
At first I never thought
I could feel this way
But my heart proves me wrong
Each and every day
I'm trying to get
The courage to let you know
What my feelings are -
I'm so afraid to show
You're the one for me
But soonI'll let you see . . .

and i will wait ...

Tree, Leaf, Wind & Love . . .

Tree, Leaf, Wind & Love . . .

People call me "Tree".

I had dated 5 girls when I was in Pre-U. There is one girl who I love a
lot but never dared to go after. She didn't have a pretty face, good
figure or an outstanding charm. She was just a very ordinary girl. I
liked her. I really liked her. I liked her innocence, her frankness, her
intelligence and her fragility. Reason for not going after her was that
I felt somebody so ordinary like her was not a good match for me. I was
also afraid that after we were together all the feelings would vanish. I
was also afraid other's gossip would hurt her.

I felt that if she were my girl, she'd be mine ultimately & I didn't
have to give up everything just for her. The last reason, made her
accompanying me for 3 years. She watched me chase other girls, and I
have made her heart cry for 3 years.

She was a good actor, and me a demanding director. When I kissed my
second girlfriend, she bumped into us. She was embarrassed but smiled &
said, "Go on!" before running off. The next day, her eyes were swollen
like a walnut. I did not want to know what caused her to cry. Later that
day, I returned from soccer training to get something & watched her cry
in the classroom for an hour or so. My fourth girlfriend did not like
her. There was once when both of them quarreled. I know that based on
her character she is not the type that will start the quarrel. However,
I still sided my girlfriend. I shouted at her & ignored her feelings and
walked off with my girlfriend. The next day, she was laughing & joking
with me like nothing happened. I know she was hurt but she did not know
deep down inside I was hurt too.

When I broke up with my fifth girlfriend, I asked her out. Later that
day, I told her I had something to tell her. I told her about my break
up. Coincidentally, she has something to tell me too, about her getting
together..
I knew who the person was. His pursuit for her had been the talk of the
School. I did not show her my heartache, just smiles & best wishes. Once
I reached home, I could not breathe. Tears rolled & I broke down. How
many times have I seen her cry for the man who did not acknowledge her
presence?

During graduation, I read a SMS in my mobile. It said, "Leaf's departure is
because of Wind's pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask her to stay"

Leaf..

People call me Leaf..

During the 3 years of Pre-U, I was on very close terms with a guy as
buddy kind. However, when he had his first girlfriend, I learnt a
feeling I never should have learnt - Jealousy. Sourness to the extreme
limit. They were only together for 2 months. When they broke up, I hide
my happiness. But after a month, he got together with another girl.

I liked him & I know he liked me. But why won't he pursue me? Since he
loves me why he didn't he make the first move? Whenever he had a new
girlfriend, my heart would hurt. After some time, I began to suspect
that this was one-sided love. If he didn't like me, why did he treat me
so well? It's beyond what you will normally do for a friend. I know his
likes, his habits. But his feelings towards me I can never figure out.
You can't expect me a girl, to ask him.
Despite that, I still wanted to be by his side. Care for him, accompany
him, and love him. Hoping that one day, he will come to love me. Because
of this, I waited for him. Sometimes, I wondered if I should continue
waiting. The pain, the dilemma accompanied me for 3 years.

At the end of my 3rd year, a junior pursues me. Everyday he pursues me.
He's like the cool & gentle wind, trying to blow off a leaf from a tree.
In the end, I realized that I wanted to give this wind a small footing
in my heart.
I know the wind will bring the leaf to a better land. Finally, leaf left
the tree, but the tree only smiled & didn't ask me to stay.

Leaf's departure is because of Wind's pursuit. Or cause Tree didn't ask
her to stay..

Wind..
People call me Wind..

Because I like a girl called leaf. Because she's so dependent on tree,
so I have to be a gust wind. A wind that will blow her away. When I
first met her, it was 1 month after I was transferred to this new
school. I saw a petite person looking at my seniors & me playing
soccer. During ECA time, she will always be sitting there. Be it alone
or with her friends, looking at him.
When he talks with girls, there's jealousy in her eyes. When he looked
at her, there's a smile in her eyes. Looking at her became my habit.
Just like, she likes to look at him.

One day, she didn't appear. I felt something missing. I can't explain
the feeling except it's a kind of uneasiness. The senior was also not
there as well. I went to their classroom, hid outside and saw my senior
scolding her.
Tears were in her eyes while he left. The next day, I saw her at her
usual place, looking at him. I walked over and smiled to her. Took out a
note & gave to her. She was surprised. She looked at me, smiled &
accepts the note.
The next day, she appeared & passes me a note and left.

It read, "Leaf's heart is too heavy and wind couldn't blow her away.."

"It's not that leaf heart is too heavy. It because leaf never want to
leave tree." I replied her note with this statement and slowly she
started to talk to me & accept my presents & phone calls. I know that
the person she loves is not me. But I have this perseverance that one
day I will make her like me.
Within 4 months, I have declared my love for her no less than 20 times.
Every time, she will divert away from the topic. But I never give up. If
I decide I want her to be mine, I will definitely use all means to win
her over. I can't remember how many times I have declared my love to
her. Although I know, she will try to divert but I still bear a small
ray of hope.

Hoping that she will agree to be my girlfriend. I didn't hear any reply
from her over the phone. I asked, "What are you doing? How come you
didn't want to reply?" She said, "I'm nodding my head". "Ah?" I could
n't believe my ears.
"I'm nodding my head" She replied loudly. I hang up the phone, quickly
changed and took a taxi and rush to her place & press her doorbell.
During the moment when she opens the door, I hugged her tightly.

Leaf departure is because of Wind pursuit. Or because Tree didn't ask
herto stay...

Moral..

In love, we win very rarely, but when love is true, even if you lose,
you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you
love yourself.

There comes a time when we stop loving someone, not because that person
has stopped loving us but because we have found out that, they'd be
happier if we let go..

Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry? When we imagine?
When we kiss?

This is because THE MOST BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN THE WORLD ARE UNSEEN.

There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want
to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the
world. It's the beginning of a new life. Happiness lies for those who cry those
who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only
they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched our
lives.

A great love? It's when you shed tears and still you care for them, it's
when they ignore you and still you long for them. It's when they begin
to love another and yet you smile and say, "I'm happy for you." If love
fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again.
Remember you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never
have to die with it.

The strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand
back up when they fall. Somehow, along the course of life, you learn
about yourself and realize that there should never be regrets, only a
lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made.

Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but
how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you
let go but how you hold on.

It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward
tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever..

It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that's
available. It's best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste
on just someone . .

Unseen . . .

Unseen . . .

It tears my heart in two
not being able to tell you how I feel
when you are with me,
and the love I feel, which you can't see.

As I sit across the table from you,
Breathing the aura of your life,
Who would have known of a love so strong
That would surpass the eternity of this life..

Knowing I could never touch you, hold you,;And love you the way I want to,
I still smile sad tears that fall
Slowly down my heart.A
s you walk away from the love,
You never knew to look for the soul mate
I could have been to you..

I linger a while and watch you pass me by.
I realize you would never love me,
And I watch my heart break down and die.
My soul mate it is you..
if only you knew . . .

And Forgive Me . .

And Forgive Me . .

You forgive me for liking you too much,
And I'll forgive you for not liking me enough.

You forgive me for missing you so,
And I'll forgive you for being so cold.

You forgive me for the loud racing of my heart,
And I'll forgive you for not hearing it.

You forgive me for playing your games,
And I'll forgive you for toying with my emotions.

You forgive me for finding you so attractive,
And I'll forgive you for not noticing.

You forgive me for raising you up so high,
And I'll forgive you for bringing me down so low.

You forgive me for wanting to be with you,
And I'll forgive you for avoiding me.

You forgive me for being so pathetic,
And I'll forgive you for taking advantage of it.

You forgive me for not being able to let go,
And I'll forgive you for never having latched on.

You forgive me for having hopes and dreams,
And I'll forgive you for crushing them . . .

Aint this so much true ... dont we all sometimes feel like that ... i don't know about others but i have felt this way many a times ... somtimes one simply understands the things .. even when they are unsaid ... Love u my Friends :)

Kshitij

I was waiting . . .

I was waiting, waiting and waiting..
throughout sweet teens..
till I passed twenties..
mid thirties..
with a beautiful heart..
over filled with pure lovedreaming of walking along..
moonlit beeches..
holding your armdreaming of getting lost inmist covered plains.
.dreaming of sleeping every night..
wrapped in your warmth dreaming of waking up each morning..
cherished with your lovedreaming of how hard it would be to..
spend the rest of the dayaway from you and your love..
till I see you at the end of the each daydreaming of how I would share..
everything in life with you dreaming of how I would sit by you..
so close to your heartdiscussing with you..
every detail in life..listening to your loving, caring words..
dreaming that..there will be somebody to rely on..
whatever comes in my way..
dreaming that I'd never be alone and helpless..

but where are you hiding..?
far or near..?
how long I'm being waiting and waiting for you.. dear..
without offering my heart and soul to anyone..
still with that pure , perfect, undying love..

when I'll meet you..?
ever..?never..?
I'm tired now.really, really tired,
dearI dont know how long I can wait..
may be I'll die one day..
never ever seeing you..
or your love . . .

This is so True, Someone righty said Good Guys Finish Last !!!

Never go on appearance

Never go on appearance

A young man was getting ready to graduate college. For many months he had admired a beautiful sports car in a dealer's showroom, and knowing his father could well afford it, he told him that was all he wanted.
As Graduation Day approached, the young man awaited signs that his father had purchased the car. Finally, on the morning of his graduation his father called him into his private study. His father told him how proud he was to have such a fine son, and told him how much he loved him. He then handed his son a beautiful wrapped gift box.

Curious, but somewhat disappointed the young man opened the box and found a lovely, leather-bound Bible. Angrily, he raised his voice at his father and said, "With all your money you give me a Bible?" and stormed out of the house, leaving the holy book.

Many years passed and the young man was very successful in business. He had a beautiful home and wonderful family, but realized his father was very old, and thought perhaps he should go to him. He had not seen him since that graduation day.

Before he could make arrangements, he received a telegram telling him his father had passed away, and had willed all of his possessions to his son. He needed to come home immediately and take care of things.

When he arrived at his father's house, sudden sadness and regret filled his heart. He began to search his father's important papers and saw the still new Bible, just as he had left it years ago. With tears, he opened the Bible and began to turn the pages. As he read those words, a car key dropped from an envelope taped onto the inside back cover of the Bible. It had a tag with the dealer's name, the same dealer who had the sports car he had desired. On the tag was the date of his graduation, and the words...PAID IN FULL.

How many times do we miss God's blessings because they are not packaged as we expected?

This one is so much touching :) and i guess this can happen simply with any one, Take care Friends - Kshitij

Never Abandon Your Loved Ones . . .

Never Abandon Your Loved Ones . . .

In order to renovate the house, someone in Japan tear open the wall.

Japanese houses normally have a hollow space between the wooden walls. When tearing down the walls, he found that there was a lizard stuck there because a nail from outside hammered into one of its feet. He sees this, feels pity and at the same time curious, as when he checked the nail, it was nailed 10 years ago when the house was first built.

What happened..?

The lizard has survived in such position for 10 years!?!! In a dark wall partition for 10 years without moving, it is impossible and mind boggling. Then he wondered, how this lizard survived for 10 years without moving a single step - since its feet was nailed!

So he stopped his work and observed the lizard, what has it been doing and what has it been eating? Later, don't know from where appears another lizard, with food in its mouth... AHHH! He was stunned and touched deeply. For the lizard that was stuck by nail, another lizard has been feeding it for the past 10 years..

Such a love, such a beautiful love!! Such love happened even on this tiny creature... What can love do? It can do wonders!! Love can do miracles!!

Imagine it has been doing it for a tired some 10 yrs, without giving up hope on its partner.

Imagine what a small creature can do that a creature blessed with the brilliant mind can't.

As the technology advances, our access to information become faster and faster. But the distance between human beings, was it getting closer as well?

NEVER ABANDON YOUR LOVED ONES. Share this story with everyone that has
touched your life and make you grow and understand and feel more about your \r\nlife. Share it with everyone!

May everyone be loved... a quote from Cae Hiew: "Love makes your heart young again and magically erase all your wrinkles." So, start loving . .