Tuesday, May 16, 2006

Came across a blog which made me think ... not think ... just nod and than i thought i should also write something ... the topic which was touched there was about purity of friendship, not the topic but the way i will take it ... friendship is funny and more funnier is when one compares that with love. I dont understand why people make so much hue and cry about friends, do they because are they jelous ... being always asked a question about my friends, i have always told yes i have friends, and they are just friends, but why the hell do people dont belive it. And its further bad when even your friends are one who question you ... But i think i have atleast understood now that it does not matters, cause i know i am saying the truth, if you dont want to listen and repect the truth then bye bye Mr/Miss.

To me love is a very pure form of friendship, you can say a perfect friendship ... perhaps i am asking for too much ... but i think its about being true to yourself and thats what matters in the end. Friendship is about accepting the other person as he or she is, but there are compromises also, a very simple compormise which we many a times ignore is "when you go out with a group of your friends for a dinner, now all people have there likes and dislikes and you never became friends because of those likes, but still you manage to order something which is accetable to all" isint that a compormise, people will just try to ignore that, its a compormise, but it is ... but when you do a smilar think when for a friend who is of opposite sex, there is so much hue and cry. Man is a social animal, and does in society means always to make comments on people, why do people have to make comments rather than watch themselves, perhaps when they learn that they will go much ahead. started it thinking will write something else, but yehe mind bada he ajeeb hai, wrote complains ... i recon ...

But i know what i will do ... follow Gandhi Ji's advice "Do such behavior to all, as you want them to do to yourself" Perhaps a collection of words which if all people in this world follow there would be no fights, and all people would be so happy.

8 comments:

Mahek said...

so true dear.. :)

Shruti said...

nice!! :)

Shruti said...

yaaar... nahi ho sakta :P..
so wht else goin on?? dun seem to be existing in the "net" world these days.. itne busy hain kya aap sahab??

Shruti said...

me in goa :D

Shruti said...

ahaan.. arey yaar... yeh kya baat hai.. :D.. aap toh har baat seriously le lete hain.. well. the "net world is not my real world" statement bada achcha hai.. koool.. chalo phir.. gotta meetin now.. cyaah

tarun said...

bahut sahi likah hai bhaiyaa

Shruti said...

hi yaar..
to tell u the truth i really dun hv a cell :P.. really.. neways, kya chal raha hai aajkal?

Shruti said...

knock knock :).. yea.. i do have a celll.. but dint hv the sim card yaar.. ab hai.. so kya chal raha hai??/ aajkal cuttak main kaam hi karte ho??? ya phir thodi masti vasti ke liye bhi tym nikalte ho?