Koi Aap Sa

Love … Friendship basically Relationships …

There goes a saying that “ek ladka and ladki dost nahi ho sakte” and well I think it’s perhaps correct and perhaps wrong also .. I think it becomes true in the case when two friends are very close otherwise general type friends mai to aisa kuch nahi hota hai mere hisab se. kher why this topic well was seeing the moving “Koi Aap Sa” for the second time, nothing to do in cuttak and uska TV premier aa raha tha, and me always been a fan of romantic comedies, people may think I am a sentimental fool but I really like the movie, what I liked was there beauty in defining what is love ? What is friendship ? and a very true saying also “A friend in need is a friend indeed” apke acche mai to harr jana aap ka dost hota hai, and the people who are there when you are down are your real friends and such people are very tough to find. Because we never tell when we are down, it has to be made out and I guess that only very few people can do.

Kher as always deviating from the topic, meri to khaisayat hai wo akhir :D, so kya kehe raha tha mai, khud he bhul gaya … ya about the movie … well a very cute movie and which makes you think about your friendship with your friends and the relationships we are into … and I think its very difficult always for other people to realize what type of relationship are we with the other person, even our closest of your friends are not able to realize that, makes me wonder than why are they there If they cant get me as we define friends by those who know me … and perhaps one more reason why these things happen is because we are so afraid to express, we are afraid to express thinking what will the other person will think, I will lose him or her, but in actual not saying we actually lose them.

Bolna apne aap mai ek bahut badi chej hai, and perhaps very difficult too, cause its how interpreted, and that is a function of mood, mindset, person, everything … u never know where to draw the lines, what to say, what not to say, where to stop, and don’t we all fight for very very silly reasons and but the beauty of friendship is there when one person is getting angry, other should not become senti, become hurt as the person who is angry dosent knows what he or she is saying and then we tend to hurt the people who matter to us. Those who are our lifelines, and then we drift. I would say I have been lucky in that regard, I can’t hate people, and I let people come and move out of my life, perhaps that hurts me sometimes but that also makes my life beautiful when we are in touch.

I guess we should cherish the moments when we friends were together, we spend quality time right, is it worth to leave that … I don’t think so it is, with life situations change, people changed, all have phases in there lives and it perhaps that makes us think otherwise, warna to you cant loose touch with that person, how can you?

Now I am wondering why am I writing it, reading this makes no sense to me, parr chalo koi nahi thodi non-sense he sahi ;)

But these are the things which can only be felt in life, I am lucky to have experienced all these (From my side only) and I am waiting for some from the other side … lets see where life takes me and all my friends too and all to be friends. This is dedicated to me, my life and lessons which I have learnt in life  I thought why not put these in words and some day laugh about it ;)

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Kshitij, or Hinger, or .HI, or K, or Horizon … sayad itne he nicks hai  hehehehe

Waise aj lafi likh diya hai main, and I rarely write my posts on my blog perhaps a change gonna happen now, its gonna become kshitijhinger rather than kshitijhinger’s collection in time to come … don’t know which people would like …